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Questions Nos. 534 to 563
CHAPTER SEVENTEEN
Question # 534: "How to approach
marriage, since I feel the need to begin to think about it now?"
E.O.D.H. Answer:
"Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers
and adulterers God will judge." (Hebrews 13:4 ).
Marriage is an institution of God that binds or joins two people together by
love. It is an agreement between a man and a woman to live together according to
the customs of their religion or society. As Christians, our customs and beliefs
come from the Holy Bible.
1Corinthians 7:9 says, "But if they cannot contain, let them
marry: for it is better to marry than to burn."
One must abstain from fornication and flee youthful lust. To avoid
fornication, it is better to marry. One must have his or her own wife or
husband. Marriage is not a sin. It is holy and sacred. In choosing a marriage
mate, one should choose his or her own kind and race.
One should not choose a person of a different race, a divorced woman having
a living husband, a homosexual, a lesbian, a close relation, or polygamist a
person with communicable diseases.
A believer should not marry an unbeliever. One should choose a person who
believes like him or her. Look for character and not beauty. When you are
married your vows are until death do us part.
Don't make a promise of marriage until you are absolutely sure that the
person you are intending to marry is the right person. Before making such a
promise, before saying 'yes', pray carefully and earnestly; seek God for the
right partner. The right partner will be a genuine believer.
Always seek advice. The person you choose can be a blessing or can ruin your
entire life. Make sure of whom your advisors are.
When you are thinking about getting married you must think about the
responsibilities that go with it. You should be able to provide for your wife
and children that will come. If you are planning marriage, go right ahead and
get married, but do it prayerfully and keep your heart set on Christ.
All in all we can do our best as mortals in choosing a partner and can end
up wrong, by using our own imagination, feelings and sight, until we get home
and understand the true qualities of the marriage partner. Therefore the best
advice I can give anyone in choosing a marriage partner is to choose the favor
of the Lord. "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good [thing], and obtaineth
favour of the LORD." (Proverbs 18:22).
MARRIAGE OF MINISTERS
In the case of a minister seeking a wife, it is even more important and
special consideration must be given to this venture. Deep consideration is as
follows. A woman must fit the ministry of that minister, because she must set
the right example to other women. She must be of a meek and quiet spirit
like Sarah.
"Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any
obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation
of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and
of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man
of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek
and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price." (1 Peter
3:1-4).
There are certain traits of a real sister that you want to look for in
seeking a wife, as the Prophet said she must not have that wild stare in her
eyes. He compared such a woman to a cattle with a wild stare and said she will
never make a mother to a man's children. The Bible refer to the same idea as a
'whore's forehead'. "Therefore the showers have been withholden, and there
hath been no latter rain; and thou hadst a whore's forehead, thou
refusedst to be ashamed." (Jeremiah 3:3).
A young woman of character that makes a man a wife would not approach him
first and ask his hand in marriage, will shy away from him, be reserved and make
herself very hard to get; even if she loves that man she will patiently wait for
the man to approach her; if she is a real Christian she would pray about that
matter and she will be fully confident about the will of the Lord. She would
love eternal life more than him.
"Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye
should go and bring forth fruit…" (John 15:16)
She must not be a harlot "…he which is joined to an harlot is one body?
for two, saith he, shall be one flesh." (1 Corinthians 6:16). She must not
be a defiled woman, because she must represent the Bride of Christ, while the
minister represents Christ. There are great controversies in the Message
concerning this topic. Some believe that it is spiritual and not a natural
virgin; that is wrong. The woman must be an undefiled woman, not touched
by man, or the minister will suffer reproaches.
"A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed
is as rottenness in his bones." (Proverbs 12:4).
Not all women who says, that God told them that a man should take their hand
in marriage really heard from God. Many are moved by Satan to cause the fall of
men. An example of this: There was a beautiful message church at Linden Guyana.
The pastor appeared to be a fine, all rebuking and chastening the sheep for
every little mistake. When certain defiled sisters with illegitimate children
sought the Lord for husbands through prayers and fastings.
One highly intellectual woman full of offences got a special revelation that
the pastor should marry to her. He abandoned his office and the sheep and obeyed
the voice of Satan in marrying to the defiled woman.
Question #535 : "Concerning
marriage; how do you recognize the right partner? Is it only through prayer?
What things should be a sure sign that she is unfit to be married?"
E.O.D.H. Answer:
IF THAT LOVE ISN'T THERE, YOU BETTER NOT GET
MARRIED
Quote W.M.B.: 11-2 "When you got married, there had to
wind back through your mind something, till you hit that tie post. And it
should have been love for your wife or your husband. Well, maybe she isn't
as pretty as John's wife; or she, well... She's not this, that, but there's
something about her that you--it strikes you. You say, "She might not be as
pretty as the other," or, "he might not be as handsome as the other"; but
there has to be a absolute there that that person's different. And there's
where you hold on to. And if that isn't there, you better not get
married: that tie post, that absolute." (The Absolute
62-1230M).
Quote: 8-5 "A young man asked me the other day, said,
"You think I could--ought to get married, Brother Branham, to such-and-such a
girl?" I said, "How much do you think of her?" He said, "Oh my, I just love
her." I said, "Well, if you're not going to live without her, you'd better
marry her then. But if you can live without her, you better not... But
if it's going to kill you, you better go ahead and get married." I said. And
so what I was trying to get to him, this: that if you love her so much... Now,
right now before you're married, everything's just fine and dandy. But
after you get married, then the toils and trials of life come
in. That's when you've got to be so in love that you understand one another.
When you're disappointed in her, or she's disappointed in you, you still
understand one another." (Stature Of A Perfect Man 62-1014m).
DON'T YOU MARRY AN UNBELIEVER
Quote W.M.B.: 112-171 "Young man getting married,
marrying some girl that don't believe; or some young girl marrying a
boy that don't believe... Don't you do that. I don't care how cute he is and.
Or how cute she is, and what those big eyes she's got; they'll all fade out
one of these days. But, brother, your soul's going to live forever. You be
careful what you're doing. She ain't a real believer or him a real believer,
don't you yoke yourself up like that. Stay away from such; it'll cause
you trouble down the road." (Hebrews Chapter 3
57-0901M).
Quote: 26 "Ahab…he'd married a sinner, Jezebel,
which was an idolater. And a mixed wedding like that never is successful;
it just can't be; either the woman will come the man's way or the man will
go the woman's way. (Elijah And Meal Offering 60-0310)"
Many brothers and sisters are faced with such questions of finding the right
partner in marriage. One must seek the right partner prayerfully, and if it's
the will of the Lord, the fire of love will be burning at both ends of the
stick.
Traits in the woman and signs that you should not marry to her, are
if she lacks a meek and quiet spirit, wants to boss you around, and after much
counsel and advice from the Word she seems set in her ways. She would not make a
good wife. Brother Branham gave that example of a wild stare; he said she would
not make a mother. I understand by that: a covetous eye after other men, a
flirter, unsettled woman and feet not abiding in her house. Such was called in
Old Testament time the forehead of a whore. If she is seeing another man while
she is courting with a brother, she is unfit. If she is defiled, a habitual liar
and will demand marriage from a man. These are not good qualities. Of course,
people are full of weaknesses, which they must overcome, but if a woman is
set in her ways with such habits, she would not make a man a good wife.
Find one that is hard to get and who puts value to herself. Above all she must
love the Lord and his word more than you.
Question # 536: "What kind of
woman should a minister (priest) marry, looking at what the Prophet, Brother
Branham, preached in the message Marriage And Divorce, and what the Bible
holds in Leviticus 21:1-7 and Ezekiel 44:22?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: You will observe
that Brother Branham made it very clear concerning the marriage of a minister,
typing it back to the priest of the O.T. and Jesus Christ of the N.T. He
specified that a minister should not marry a woman that was defiled. Some have
spiritualized that, but none can justify that idea in the Message or the
Scriptures, and those who believe that it is physical virginity, went over board
and are defiling the women, as you would observe in the following question and
answer.
Question # 537: "How can a
minister who is suppose to marry a virgin know whether the lady is a virgin or
not?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: This is left
strictly to the love and faithfulness of the woman, her Christian integrity to
speak the truth and be honest in all her dealings with a minister. Some who
stand in doubt may obtain medical proof. But they prefer to defile a sister to
prove it. That is a heresy. If she tells a lie, any man who marries her is at
liberty to divorce her.
HAS A RIGHT TO PUT HER AWAY & MARRY ANOTHER SHE TOOK A FALSE
VOW
Quote W.M.B.: 401-Q-91 91. "She has to confess that
to her husband before they are married if she's did that. If not
and her husband finds it out later, he has a right to put her away,
because she took a false vow…ritual says. "Be it well known to you if any
couples are joined otherwise than God's Word does allow, their marriage is not
lawful."… A woman come not long ago, and she said, "I confessed all that to
God." said, "You have to confess it to your husband. It wasn't God that you
committed adultery against; it was your husband." …And if a man marries a
woman and she has lived unclean before she marries him, and then she comes
to him, if they've been married ever so long, and then she comes to him and
says, "Honey, I want to tell you something. I did run out with another man; I
never told you," Jesus said he has a right to put her away and marry
another, because they're not married in the beginning, 'cause she falsely
told a lie against him." (Questions And Answers 59-0628e).
IF SHE LIVES WITH HER HUSBAND FOR TEN YEARS AND THEN CONFESSES IT, HE
HAS A RIGHT TO PUT HER AWAY
Quote W.M.B.: 13-6 "If she even does something wrong,
she must confess that to her husband before he takes her; and make it right…If
she doesn't and she lives with her husband for ten years and then confesses
it, he has a right to put her away and marry another woman. That's the
Scripture. Fornication is unclean living." (Invisible Union Of The Bride
65-1125).
Question # 538: "If a
denominational girl (virgin) believes the Message, and is baptized, can she
marry to a Message believer or minister?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: Yes, a Message
believer can marry a sister that comes from organization, who has proven
to be a genuine believer. They must not join a church and change religions
because they want to get married! There is a lot of that, that goes on around
the world. Muslims become Hindus and Hindus become Christians for jobs and
marriages. They are not genuine believers. They must truly have a revelation of
the Message of Malachi 4:5&6. Yes, you understood me right from Book 10 on
marital matters. If the girl is a virgin she can be married to a minister; she
must be a physical virgin.
It is always better for us to try the spirits and prove all things,
concerning people who come to the Message. Give it time without any commitment;
if it is genuine the person will stand with the Word; if not, they would leave
and find what they are looking for outside. Marriage for a minister is most
important. He must find the right wife. To do so he must have the favor of the
Lord. "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the
LORD." (Proverbs 18:22).
Question # 539: 'Is it really
true that a minister in this Message who marries a virgin, and his wife dies or
is divorced, he can still marry another virgin? If the minister believes this
Message and becomes a minister, and a sister believes this Message and this
minister wants to marry the sister, can they say, because she is not a virgin
they cannot be remarried? Please, I misunderstood this place. Try to correct me
if I made a mistake."
E.O.D.H. Answer: Yes, he must
remarry to a virgin. He cannot marry to a defile woman. He can only remarry if
his wife was divorced for whoredom.
NO MINISTER COULD MARRY A WIDOW
Quote W.M.B.: 36-1 There is no minister that can
marry a widow…Leviticus 21:7 and Ezekiel 44:22 and it will show you that
the priesthood was not to marry a woman that's been touched by man.
This type is of the virgin Bride of Jesus Christ, because they handled the
fire of God, the priests did, Aaron's sons…So they could not marry a woman
that had been touched by another man... See, she's got a living husband, so no
man can marry her. Care what she does and who she is, she's got a living
husband. There's no grounds for her at all. But it's not for him: causes her,
not him…Notice, it is stated that he cannot remarry, only a virgin. He
can remarry; he can remarry again if it's a virgin; but he can't marry
somebody's else's wife. (Marriage and Divorce 65-0221M).
And the LORD said unto Moses, Speak unto the priests the sons of Aaron,
and say unto them…They shall not take a wife that is a whore, or profane;
neither shall they take a woman put away from her husband: for he is holy
unto his God…And he shall take a wife in her virginity. A widow, or a divorced
woman, or profane, or an harlot, these shall he not take: but he shall take a
virgin of his own people to wife." (Leviticus
21:1,7,13,14).
MINISTER ORDAINED BY BROTHER BRANHAM
Quote W.M.B.: 30 "Brother Ben here has come to
us. I think he's been preaching for some time. Yet, he hasn't been officially
ordained or hands laid on him here…How many believes him to be God's
servant, worthy of this blessing that we'll ask of God for him?…When he
heard the other day on "Marriage and Divorce"... He and his wife was ready to
separate… they want to cope with the Word of God…I pray that God will
bless Ben and his wife to His service. Let's lay our hands upon the
brother. Dear God, we lay our hands upon our Brother Ben by a sign that we
love him and we believe, Lord, that he is willing to do a work for You, to be
sent out with these tapes, to play them among some mountain people in the
way-away places where probably many of us would never get, but yet the Message
must go to all the world…Bless you, Brother Ben. The right-hand of
fellowship we can give you as minister brothers. God bless you." (Does God
Change His Mind 65-0418e).
Question # 540: "Shall a Message
believer marry a denominational bride if a Message bride is not available? If
not, what do we do? There are no Message believers (churches) in our district or
zone area."
E.O.D.H. Answer: "Whoso
findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. It
takes God to find a wife for a man. God set that example in Genesis. He made a
wife for Adam. For a Christian to marry a denominational church member, it is an
unequal yoke. They will have conflicts and that family will be divided. 2
Corinthians 6:14-18. I understand your concerns about lack of Christian
girls and boys, but the Lord tries the hearts of His people and afterward save
someone from the organization, the world or another religion. But it is not
right for boys and girls, adults etc., to go out and marry outside of the
Message with the hope of their partner accepting the Message afterwards. The
church will be in a mess of confusion soon after that, and no minister
should perform a blessing on such marriages: hybrid or unequal yoke. Book
10 will be an asset to you to find scriptures and quotations to support
this.
Question # 541: "There is a
brother who wants to get married to a sister, but the issue is that the sister
is a divorcee and her husband is still alive. She wants to get married again to
a brother in the faith. Sir, is it lawful for her to remarry while her
first husband is still alive, though he is married now with children? Sir, we
are having a divided house, two schools in the assembly. The first school
said, "As long as she has married, though while in the world, and the man is
still an unbeliever, that she is still bound to the man because the marriage was
legal." The second school said that she is free to remarry, that she is not
bound to the man again, hence she did it in ignorance, that the grace of God did
cover her to remarry. To be sincere, I am with the first school, while my
pastor is with the second school. Sir, this issue is a very serious problem
facing us out here. Please, we need your urgent counsel and intervention."
E.O.D.H. Answer:
"For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to [her] husband
so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law
of her husband. So then if, while [her] husband liveth, she be married to
another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead,
she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married
to another man." (Romans 7: 2-3).
The Scripture is self-explained, concerning the re-marriage of any woman.
She is forbidden by the law and by Christ to be re-married as long as her
husband is alive (saved or unsaved). If there was an exception of saved
or unsaved husband, Paul would have specified that; but there is none laid down
by the Lord Jesus, the Apostles or Brother Branham. That is a doctrine of Gan,
the only heretic in the world I ever heard say such things, in perversion of the
revelation of 'Marriage and Divorce'. The following quotations of the
Prophet clearly explains that God gave him that revelation, since the Seals,
that there is no grounds for the woman to be re-married
IT IS NOT STATED AGAINST HIM TO REMARRY, BUT THERE'S NO GROUNDS
FOR HER AT ALL
Quote W.M.B.: 37-1 See, she's got a living
husband, so no man can marry her. Care what she does and who she is, she's
got a living husband. There's no grounds for her at all. But it's not
for him: causes her, not him. Get it? You have to make the Word run in
continuity. See? Nothing saying he couldn't, but she can't. See? 'Causes her,
not him. That's just exactly what the Bible says. "Causes her..." It is not
stated against him to remarry, but her. (Marriage and Divorce
1965).
AFTER THOSE SEVEN SEALS, HE SHOWED WHAT WAS THE TRUTH OF
IT
Quote W.M.B.: 21-4 "You get my tape on "Marriage and
Divorce"...When He told me the truth of this marriage and divorce
questions...And after those seven seals, He showed what was the truth of it."
(Choosing Of A Bride 65-0429e).
Quote: 22-5 "Now, you see what happened there in
marriage and divorce?... the Seven Seals was opened, that brought out the
real truth of it." (Invisible Union Of The Bride
65-1125).
THE MAN CAN PUT AWAY HIS WIFE AND MARRY ANOTHER
Quote W.M.B.: 39-1 "The man can put away his wife and
marry another, but not the woman put away her husband and marry
another...Never says anything against the man doing it; it's always the
woman." (Marriage And Divorce 65-0221M).
"And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except
it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso
marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery." (Matthew 19:9).
My precious brother, I am in the first school of thought like you, and
Brother Branham belonged to the same school. If the pastor of the church decides
to marry the couple after you have spoken to him with these quotations, he will
do that on his own risk and responsibility to the Lord. Just let him know where
you stand, and try to maintain the unity, with the hope that he can understand.
We do not want to promote a division on account of this error. Is there some of
Gan's teaching or his influence yet in the assembly?
Question # 542: "A man having a
child outside, before coming to the Message, is he under obligation to marry
that woman (the child's mother)? She is an unbeliever."
E.O.D.H. Answer: No, there is no
provision in Scriptures or the Message for a believer to marry an unbeliever. A
man or the woman who is a Christian should not marry an unbeliever.
"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers… what
part hath he that believeth with an infidel?" (II Corinthians
6:14-15).
THAT'S AGAINST THE LAW OF GOD, AGAINST THE BIBLE
Quote W.M.B.: E-18 "Israel was supposed to marry
Israelites. They wasn't supposed to mix marriage... And you're not
supposed to do it today either, yoke unbelievers with believers. That's
against the law of God, against the Bible. (Painted Face Jezebel
56-1005).
NO BELIEVER SHOULD EVER MARRY AN UNBELIEVER
Quote W.M.B.: "And no believer should ever marry an
unbeliever, under no circumstances: should always marry believers." (Be
Certain Of God 59-0125).
Question #543 : "If I marry a
Message maid who was born of her mother; the father's second wife? Is it wrong
according to our Message? This is not my heresy but a question only. Please send
your answer with what Brother Branham told according to the Scriptures and
'Marriage and Divorce'?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: Yes, all manner
of sins and blasphemy shall be forgiven men. There is only one sin that is not
pardonable and that is blasphemy against the Holy Ghost. The Lord has set this
young woman free; she is not responsible for her parents' sin, 1 John
1:9. "He is faithful and just to forgive us for all our sins." Yes this
young lady, if she is a Christian, could be married to a Christian boy.
Quote W.M.B.: 41 "The Bible said that a illegitimate,
called "bastard child," could not enter the congregation of the Lord for ten
generations, which would be four hundred years that a illegitimate child could
not come into the congregation of the Lord. That's how bad that hybriding was;
that was a woman that let another man live with her in order to bring forth a
child, that that child was hybrid, not by its father but by some other man.
See? And that was so evil before God, it taken ten generations to ever breed
that out again, before God. But that doesn't apply to this age. You have a new
birth now. They don't... They had just one birth back there, that was the
actual sexual breeding. We have this new birth now which is the spiritual,
that breeds out all the cull. And we are new creatures in Christ Jesus, borned
again of the Spirit of God: new creatures. And the word "creature," if some of
you good scholars here that understand (if you don't, you might look it up),
the creature comes from the Greek word of "a new creation." Oh, the same as
you are a creature here born sexually, you are then a new creation borned
heavenly. Of--in God's new creation of a new man. New creation, that's a
birth. But it has to be a birth. Just the same as the natural birth is
necessary, the spiritual birth is just as necessary as the natural birth."
(Ten Virgins 60-1211M).
Quote: "1035-Q-308 308. "Dear Brother Branham, if a baby
is born of out of wedlock, can this child ever be saved or go in the rapture?
Saved? Why sure, I believe the child could be... The child can't help what's
been done. That is true. But About going in the rapture... Saved, I'd say,
"Yes." But in the rapture it's a predestinated seed that goes in the rapture.
And I can't believe that adultery was a predestinated seed. You understand?
See? I believe the baby can be saved; it has no rights of its own. It's a
awful act and things. But now, in the Old Testament when a baby was born a
bastard child, it could not even enter the congregation of the Lord for
ten generations, four hundred and something years, that curse was so bad. Just
think of that. A innocent baby, its great, great, great, great, great, great,
great, great, great grandchildren, just think, the baby's great, great, great,
ten great grandchildren could not even come in the congregation of God. That's
right. But you see, there was nothing there strong enough to forgive that sin.
The blood of the Old Testament did not forgive sins; it covered sins. But the
Blood of Jesus Christ divorces it. That's different now. When the Blood of
Jesus Christ comes in, it's the different." (Question And Answers C.O.D.
64-0823E).
Question #544 : "Do you think it
is proper for a man who is not married to pastor a church?"
E.O.D.H. Answer:
"A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant,
sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach." (1Timothy 3:2).
"If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children
not accused of riot or unruly." (Titus 1:6).
Yes. The Scripture says that a pastor must be the husband of one wife, but
consider Brother Paul, Barnabas and Jesus. They were not married, yet they
pastored churches. If a man must be married to be a pastor, then Jesus, Paul and
Barnabas were wrong. Yet they were right. So an unmarried man can pastor a
church. The scripture in 1Timothy 3:1, has a link against Polygamy
Question #545 : "I am a
preacher of the Message of Malachi 4:5-6, my question is this: 'Should a Pastor
be married before he starts preaching the Message? Many servants of God told me,
'Before marriage you are just a preacher or an evangelist but not pastor.' The
qualifications which are in 1Timothy; are they only for the pastors or for all
five-fold ministers, or only for elders. "
E.O.D.H. Answer:
"For this cause left I thee in Crete, that thou shouldest set in order the
things that are wanting, and ordain elders in every city, as I had appointed
thee: If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children
not accused of riot or unruly. For a bishop must be blameless, as the steward
of God; not selfwilled, not soon angry, not given to wine, no striker, not
given to filthy lucre; But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober,
just, holy, temperate; Holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught,
that he may be able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the
gainsayers." (Titus 1:5-9).
"This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he
desireth a good work .A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one
wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;
Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a
brawler, not covetous; One that ruleth well his own house, having his children
in subjection with all gravity; (For if a man know not how to rule his own
house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)Not a novice, lest being
lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover he
must have a good report of them which are without; lest he fall into reproach
and the snare of the devil." (1Timothy 3:1-13).
The qualifications mentioned in these Scriptures pertain to all
offices in the ministry: Prophets, Apostles, Evangelists, Pastors and
Teachers. The words 'elder' and 'bishop' includes all offices in the
ministry.
What would one say about Paul or Barnabas? They were not married, yet they
shared in the five fold office gifts. Paul said in 1Corinthians 7:1: "Now
concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to
touch a woman." And then in 1Corinthians 7:7: "For I would that all men
were even as I myself." "But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after
this manner, and another after that."
Peter was a married man. Matthew 8:14: "And when Jesus was come into
Peter's house, he saw his wife's mother laid, and sick of a fever."
"And he arose out of the synagogue, and entered into Simon's house. And
Simon's wife's mother was taken with a great fever; and they besought him for
her." (Luke 4:38).
Some having offices in the five fold ministry will be married and others
will be unmarried.
Question #546: "Is it good by
the Bible for a man who isn't married or had a wife and children, to be
appointed a pastor of a church."
E.O.D.H. Answer:
"A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant,
sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;" (1Timothy 3:2).
"If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children
not accused of riot or unruly." (Titus 1:6).
If only married men are to be pastors then Jesus, Paul,
Barnabas and even Brother Branham before he was married did wrong when they
pastored the Church. Peter was a married man and he also pastored a church.
Married and unmarried men were pastors, so a married man, as well as an
unmarried man can be appointed as a Pastor.
Question # 547: "Concerning the
qualification of pastors, do you believe a pastor should, by compulsory, be
married, but not other ministers?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: No, a pastor is
not compelled by the word to be a married man and likewise other ministers using
different offices.
WHEN I LAID THE CORNERSTONE, I WASN'T EVEN MARRIED
YET
Quote W.M.B.: 15 "When I laid the cornerstone…I
wasn't even married yet, just a young man." (Seventy Weeks of Daniel
61-0806).
Quote: E-16 "That cornerstone on that morning when we
laid the cornerstone…in 1933… It was long before I was ever married. I was
single at home." (God keeps His Word 57-0407M).
"Have we not power to lead about a sister, a wife, as well as
other Apostles, and as the brethren of the Lord, and or I only and Barnabas,
have we power to forbear working?" (I Corinthians: 9:5-6).
Question # 548: "During a
wedding ceremony, who is supposed to come first to the church? Is it the bride
or the bridegroom?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: As a general
rule here in the Western world, the bridegroom is always at the church first. I
guess, according to American customs, Brother Branham practiced the same.
However, I cannot find any specific reference in his quotations, as regarding
this widely accepted custom, but I believe that there is Scriptural
evidence. Matthew 25 said 'while the bridegroom tarried (waited) they
(ten virgins) all slumbered and slept. Depicted in this parable is the Eastern
custom of weddings. I noticed that Isaac waited in the tent and Rebecca was
brought to him on a camel's back, also our Bridegroom will be waiting in the
clouds and the Bride will be caught up to meet Him the air.
I think you are referring to the quotations of WMB below. I am precautious
in taking an experience of the Prophet and establishing doctrinal
standards, policies or customs, as certain things happened in his life, because
of certain reasons. These quotations do not establish that the bride ought to be
at the church first. It only says that he was late, because of making a sick
call, and was late two hours. He was supposed to be there first and on account
of a two hour delay, his wife showed up to find that he was absent; he did
not specify. However, this is not a doctrinal issue and I would not
condemn those who want to have the bride waiting for the bridegroom. I gave a
simple answer because you asked a simple question. If you find some Scriptures
and quotation
Quote W.M.B.: E-18 "I was late for my wedding. I kept my
wife waiting about two hours: had to make a sick call. Now, if I can just be
late for my funeral; that's the main thing. Well, I'm so glad that there is
One on time, and that's God and His Message: always on time." (Meanest Man I
Know 62-0127).
Quote: E-1a "I'm just a little bit late: always that
way. I was late for my wedding. If I can just be late for my funeral, all
right. See? That... My wife will get me for that. She's here this afternoon
so... But I was late for my wedding; kept her waiting. Well, just one place I
don't want to be late, that's when I get to the door up there. I want--want to
be just in time then. Maybe I'll work real hard, I can make that one, by
grace, anyhow." (Earnestly Contending For The Faith
53-0614a).
Question # 549: "How long should
a marriage service last?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: Precious one,
there is no stipulation of time in the Bible or the message of WMB. However,
from my experience about wedding ceremonies for the past 38 years, I give my
judgment and what I find to be convenient for a mixed congregation of
unsaved people and believers. The prophet said, when we preach an evangelical
message, we should keep a message at about forty-five minutes. In such
ceremonies, where there is a gathering of unsaved people, I advised our
ministers to keep it that way a message for 45 minutes and the ceremony, about
20 minutes, depending upon the kind of vows that are to be answered and special
songs etc. I find that, in so doing, I have won many souls in marriage
ceremonies.
On other occasions, where there are only believers gathered and few
unsaved people, we preach longer sermons, approximately one and an half hours
and twenty minutes for vows. Off course the reception time is separate. It
happen that we have a big camp ground and a large building to which everyone
goes, including the bride and bridegroom, for the reception; approximately
1000-1200 people are fed. Music etc. are played. I trust that this helps. If
someone vary where time factors are concerned, I would not oppose them, but I
find this very fitting.
Question # 550: "Please should
there be preaching during marriage services?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: Yes, it's very
appropriate, especially if a wise pastor will choose a topic on love, courtship
and marriage and use a type from the scripture. It helps to edify marriage
couples and those that are planning marriage and also to inform unsaved people
about marriage in a scriptural manner.
Question # 551: "If a lady in
the world could not keep her virginity and now she is a sister in the message
and a brother wants to marry her, is it right for her to put on the wedding
veil?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: Yes, it is
convenient and scriptural, but not scripturally binding for any bride to wear a
veil. In this case of a defiled woman, it is not unscriptural for her to wear a
veil, as the veil signifies obedience to her husband, commitment and dedication
and not her virginity, as we will observe from the question that follow
and the quotations of W.M.B. supplied.
Question # 552: "What is the
meaning of the veil?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: The following
quotations clarify this question. It is the woman's obedience and dedication to
her husband that the veil represents. It does not represent her chastity only.
Quote W.M.B.: I was talking to someone today. When
Rebekah come to meet Isaac (did you notice) she veiled her face. They--they
still do it. They don't know what they're doing, but a bride veils her
face. Why? The man is her head. And then, she has no... she--her... The nature
of a woman is to yield to a man. And that's the reason the--the church should
be veiled. It's got a Head. That's Christ." (Meanest Man In Santa Maria
62-0630e).
Quote: "… Like I was explaining about why women
veil their face when they get married. Why? They may not understand that.
But what they're doing is knowing that they are a body; they have no head; the
man is their head. That's the reason Rebekah veiled herself. And that's why
the church ought to veil itself and surrender itself to Christ, because He is
the Head, and He is the Word". (Jehovah Jireh Part.3 62-0707).
Question # 553: "What do the
Word and the message say about best man, bride's maid and bridal trail?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: I noticed in the
scripture that Jesus spoke about the friend of the bride-groom who was John the
Baptist who rejoiced because of the bride-groom's voice. It is my understanding
that, it is an Old Testament custom. Jesus also spoke about the children
of the bride chamber, little ones teenagers etc, that accompany the bride as
helpers in holding and carrying certain articles of necessity and sometimes lift
the trail that follows the bride. I do not draw any harsh lines concerning these
little formalities and customs, as they pattern the Old Testament
ceremonies more or less. I guess there are some modern customs included. I do
not make any objections unless it resembles Hollywood and is indecent in any
manner. I must state here that too much formality and many nonsensical practices
are included.
Question # 554: "In book ten
there is a wedding picture with two small children. What is their role in
marriage ceremony?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: It's like I
described above, they are called bridesmaids as described in the above question;
children of the bridechamber. (Matthew 9:15).
Question # 555: "I was under Dr.
Frank's heresies now when I read your books 1 up to 11, I believed the message
you preach to be the truth. I was married outside the message and my wife also
came to the message under Dr. Frank and I was appointed administrator under
leadership of a Pastor. My question is, should I divorce my wife? I have
been with her for many years and we have children. Please help me; I want to
follow the message. They are so many that are in this problem here. All were
under Dr. Frank. Others are ministers. I believe the answer will help
many."
E.O.D.H. Answer: Peace be unto
you precious one. Your questions expressed such sincerity, honesty, devotion and
determination to pay the price in following the message of the hour. God have
provided a way by his grace to solve our problems. No, you do not have to
divorce your wife; God has been merciful both to you and her. You are both
Christians now, and as long as you live right and continue to serve the Lord,
you are both free as a bird.
It sounds to me, from your question, that you originally married your wife,
she being an unsaved person and you a Christian. If so you did wrong, but later
when she became a Christian, this was altered. You are both believers. You were
appointed after that your marital problem was settled. You are not held
accountable. If you did not have a minister performed a blessing upon your
wedding and it was only done by a justice of peace, you may want to have that
done even now in a private ceremony to further settle the issue.
Let no one tell you that you must divorce your wife, nor that you cannot do
any service to God. Your problem was before your office appointment.
It is a shame and disgrace how Doctor Frank has mixed up so many people in
order to cover his own sin. He is thoroughly exposed on book 12 and at this
present time, I am exposing him on other doctrines.
Quote W.M.B.: 1095-Q-342 342. "We were married
twenty-one years ago by the justice of the peace. Was--was it wrong?
Yes, it was wrong for you to do that. Marriage belongs in the house of
God. But being that you are married, here's when you're really married: you're
married when you vow one to the other, when you promise one another that
you're, that you'll take one another. The justice of peace could give you
license; that's legal terms of living together as husband and wife without
being common law husband and wife. But when you promise this girl and
this--you promise that man that you'll live true to him, and you take him to
be your husband, you're married then. You remember, I explained that last
week, I believe it was. See? When you promise her... See?
Even in the old Bible, if a man was betrothed to a maid, and... You know
the laws on that. Why, it was just the same as an adultery. Certainly was,
when he promised, that was it." (Questions & Answers
64-0830M).
Question # 556: "A
denominational brother accepted the message. Twelve years also before that, his
wife left him and ran away with a man. This lover is frequently visiting her in
a house owned by this brother. The brother visits his children at that home and
she curses him. She ran away with 75 Lakhs {75 x 66,000 rupees}. The brother is
still sending her money but she never acknowledges it.
Now the problem is this, the brother is saying that he is ready to
forgive her and take her back. I see that this man should have kicked her
out and not take her back. Please guide me in this matter. Advise me if I am
wrong and what answer I should give that brother?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: Precious pastor,
you are not alone. This is a serious case of whoredom. A whore is a deep ditch
and by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread {Proverbs
6:26}. This brother has fallen from grace and possibly is misled by the
affection for his children. The conduct of this woman qualifies her as a whore
or a harlot. "know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body?
for two, saith he, shall be one flesh." {1 Corinthians 6:16}.
She abuses this man, is unthankful and is committing adultery in his own
house. How can such a marriage be re-united, and if it is, it will never
last. He has fallen too low and destroyed his Christian testimony, by trying to
re-unite the marriage under those conditions. He is about ready to neglect his
salvation for that purpose. If he does, he would lose out both ways. You said
that he works in foreign countries and left his wife for long periods. I guess
this contributed to her vile conduct, but this is not a good reason to take back
such a Harlot. It's a disgrace to his Christian testimony, the church and Jesus
Christ.
This is not simply a mistake for which a man can forgive his wife and take
her back. She has made herself a Harlot and he cannot be re-joined to her, or he
is one flesh. It is true that WMB said he will forgive his wife and it's up to
any man if he wants to forgive his wife and take her back. But this case is in a
different category and should not be mixed with such quotations.
"Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his
wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and
thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for
an inheritance." (Deuteronomy 24:4).
HE SHOULD KICK HER OUT
Quote W.M.B.: 161 "Now, look. If a woman goes out here
and is married to a man, and she goes out and makes love with another man and
has an affairs with him, and come back to her husband, he should kick her
out." (God Of This Evil Age 65-0801m).
Quote: 23-76 ""A woman that bobbed her hair, her husband
had a right and a Bible right to divorce her."… That's what the Bible said.
That's exactly right… the Scripture said… if she cuts her hair, she dishonors
her husband. And a woman that's dishonorable has a legal right to be
put away in divorce." (QA On Genesis Cod
53-0729).
Quote: E-66 "Yes, sir. That's the lowest thing a woman
ever done when she started smoking cigarettes. And you husbands that will let
her do it, well, I've got my opinion of you... You're not the boss of your
house, no indeed.
I don't say my wife won't do it; but when she does, she won't be Mrs.
William Branham. That will be one thing sure. Yes indeedy." (Unchangeable
Word Of God 60-0724 ).
Question # 557: "A brother was
living in fornication before he got married, even after. He used to take girls
to hotel rooms. He works on a passenger ship. I counselled him and a girl to
confess any sins before marriage. The man never confessed anything. The girl
being a virgin was blameless. After marriage, he continued in adultery and he
was very adamant not to repent. I gave him the last chance.
The girl was ready to leave him. He confessed but not that he lived a filthy
life. The girl told him not to go back on the ship, and then I will come back.
He agreed before the elders. The girl went back, she got pregnant. The man went
back on the ship. The church excommunicated him. He neglected his wife. She left
him. He forcibly told her, "I want a divorce." The marriage ended up in
divorce.
Some believers are saying even if your husband is a drunkard, you must live
with him and bear all that he does. Many top pastors are saying that she must
live with him however filthy, because she cannot divorce him. He forced her to
take the divorce for which she signed the papers. Has she done wrong? Please
give your comments on this case?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: The adulterer
and fornicator under discussion in this question, is addressed as a brother.
He is not. His vile conduct proves that he is a hypocrite and a
make-believer. Though he came under the message, he was never delivered from
such Sodom and Gomorrah practices. This usually happens when message believers,
seek partners outside of the message and they come in for the convenience of
marriage. I am not sure about this case.
This make-believer has corrupted a virgin daughter under the message.
He was used of Satan to destroy her life. He continued to live in adultery
risking her life by the possibility of passing on to her social diseases, even
aids. She objected to his conduct and he agreed before the elders, that he would
not go back on the ship in order to be faithful to her. He played the part of a
hypocrite and went back contrary to his agreement. Now the girl is pregnant and
refuses to live under such conditions. The church has excommunicated him and he
departed from his wife and requested divorcement, which she signed. She
never divorced him, he did and she gave the consent. She is not under bondage,
because this man is a dead unbeliever.
"But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is
not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace." (I
Corinthians 7:15).
Believers of the message who voice their opinions in this matter, saying
that she has divorced him, are out of place, and also those who are
saying that she should continue to live with him are wrong. They should humble
their hearts and leave such advice and decision to the pastor and not act as
goats in matters that they do not comprehend.
Pastors who advocate that the young woman divorced the man are wrong. She
never did. He divorced her. They need to study their bible and search the
message of the prophet. A woman cannot continue to be a door mat and risk her
life with aids and be treated as a dog. This does not permit the sister to be
remarried as long as he is alive-Romans 7, 1 Corinthians 7. He has brought great
distress to this poor sister, used of the devil to make her life bitter. He is
obligated to take care of her and the child financially if the law provides for
that in India. If she goes to court, she is right in place because he no longer
belongs to the church and is not a brother. All his conduct has proven that he
is an outright unbeliever, who came under disguise as a believer of the message.
Shame on all pastors, who demand that this poor sister should live under
such bondage. I am ready to engage them if they deny my counsel. You have acted
right in putting away this evil man from the church (1 Corinthians 5).
Question # 558: "A minister told
me that in this Message the black sisters cannot intermarry with the white
brothers. Now we have been baptized into one body, there is no longer blacks or
whites in the sight of God. Why can't the blacks marry to the whites?
So brother, if it is a lie, try to make me understand what the Prophet is
talking about because the person quoted the Prophet's name and said that it is
the Prophet's saying. If I am worrying you with my question, please, I
apologize. They said the sisters should keep silence; their place is in the
kitchen and not in the House of God. It has caused confusion in African
ministries. The sisters do not know the Message; some don't even know how to
read."
E.O.D.H. Answer:
Quote W.M.B.: 20-5 "When that great fuss come up down there at
Shreveport here not long ago, that old colored preacher stood out there; he's
got a place in my heart. He said, "I never was ashamed because I'm a colored
man." Said, "God made me what I am, and I'm proud of it." But said, "Today I'm
ashamed the way you people are acting. The way my own people's acting, it
makes me ashamed."…The people would be better off if you'd just let them the
way they are, the way God made them. Let the brown race marry the brown
race, the white race marry the white race, the dark race,
the yellow race and whatevermore, stay the way God made them. If
a violet... God made it and it was white, let it remain white. If it's blue,
black, brown, whatever the flower is, let it alone. If corn was raised a
certain way, yellow corn, don't mix with white corn. If you do, you mix it up,
then it can't breed itself back again." (Condemnation By Representation
60-1113).
Quote: 1179-166 "Now, I don't believe in mixing
marriages. I believe that a white man should not marry a colored
girl, or a colored girl marry a white man, or a yellow marry a colored, or a
white, or a... I believe the brown, black, white, and races of people are like
a flower garden of God, and I do not believe they should be crossed up.
I believe that's the way God made them, and I believe that's the way they
should remain... It fools me that I seen some real pretty colored girl,
intelligent, nice looking kid, just as pretty as any woman you'd want to
see... What does she want to marry a white man and have mulatto children? What
would an intelligent colored girl want with such a thing as that? Is because
that something... that communist... And how would a colored man want to marry
a white woman and have mulatto children?... I believe you should stay just
what we are…God... If He made me, my color black, I'd be happy to be a black
man for God. If He made me yellow, I'd be a happy yellow man for Christ. If He
made me white, I've a--happy white man for Christ. If He made me brown, or
red, an Indian, whatever it is, I'd stay my same color. That would be me. I
want to be like my Maker made me." (Que. & Ans. 64-0830e).
Quote: 22 "I believe God is a God… of variety. He makes
big mountains and little mountains. He makes deserts. He makes forests. He
makes white men, black men, red men. We should never cross that up. It
becomes a hybrid. And anything hybrid cannot rebreed itself. You're
ruining the race of people. There's some things about a colored man
that a white man don't even possess them traits. A white man's always stewing
and worrying; a colored man's satisfied in the state he's in, so they don't
need those things." (Lord Just Once More 63-0628a).
Question # 559: "In South Africa
we have a diversity of races. There were a lot of intermarriages between the
coloureds and the "blacks", although we were all classified as non-whites. The
"coloureds" origin is from a union between the whites and the blacks and also
from the koisan.
Is it "wrong" if there is intermarriage between the black and so called
coloureds? I do agree as far as white and black are concerned. Who did Bro.
Branham refer to when he mentioned the coloureds? Was this the Prophet's
personal views or can it be followed under certain circumstances? Did he mention
it with reference to Martin Luther King? Would God allow people across the color
line from falling in love? What about a brother or sister who was born by a
colored father and white mother. Should she or he marry a colored or white
brother or sister?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: My precious
Brother, the above question is one that causes great concern around the Message.
Brother Branham, though he preached against mixed marriage of different races, I
have not found anything in the Message that clears up this problem. But taking
his teachings literally as it is, such parties ought to marry within their race.
By that I mean that they find a partner that is of both races, mixed
like them.
However being as a spiritual leader I have given those under my ministry a
few options as follows.
1. To marry the parents race on which they leaned mostly in their
resemblance. 2. To go back to their father's race, {original seed}, if they
don't look exactly like the mother. 3. To a less degree, to marry within
the mother's race, if the child came out exactly or closer to the mother.
However, I do not promote marriages to either mother's or father's race, if
the child resembles one race more than the next. I let them find a
partner that looks like them. This may sound a little confusing to some, but I
try to keep that within my ministry, because of the present distress and
confusion that is involved. I hope this helps you.
Question # 560: "If a Christian
is involved in polygamy, what steps should be taken to correct the issue? Should
he divorce those wives? Is it true that the first vow to the first wife is the
only one considered as a vow in the context of the Word of God, because
polygamous agreements are not considered as real vows; hence to correct the
situation is to chase away the other wives?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: Christians
should not enter into polygamy. It was not so from the beginning. God made one
man and one woman. Jesus re-established that covenant (one man, one woman).
However, some polygamist will repent and accept the Gospel. There were many
cases of this in the Early Church, and no where in Scripture, Jesus nor Paul
commanded them to separate from their wives, but said, "Let every man abide
in the same calling wherein he was called. (I Corinthians 7:20). But
Scriptures forbid any man from marrying an additional wife, and Brother Paul
specified, for a man to be a bishop or deacon, he must be the husband of one
wife. Therefore a polygamist cannot be a minister as long as his wives, except
one, are alive.
When a Christian man or woman falls to the sin of polygamy, and wants to
make their lives right, the only solution is separation, except for the first
wife. If the woman involved here is the first wife, she is still his bonafide
wife, regardless of if the husband does not put away the other wives.
Yes, the first vow is the only vow considered by God and His Word. The other
vows relative to additional wives are null and void, and according to God's
Word, it is whoredom, since Christ made no provision for polygamy.
Quote W.M.B.: E-47 "…now, remember don't you say that I
believe in Polygamy; I don't." (Seventy weeks of Daniel
61-08-06).
Quote: 209 "… Polygamy is wrong; we know."
(Seventy weeks of Daniel 61-08-06).
Quote: "God made man to live true to his wife, but man
comes along and perverts that around, and he is not satisfied with his
own wife, but wants to live with the rest of wives. God gave us good clear
water to drink. Man's got to mix alcohol or something else with it before he
drinks it. It's perverting from the real beginning of it". (But from
the beginning it was not so"-58-10-02).
Question # 560B: Sir, I
understand that a female member of your church absented herself from your
assembly, ran off with a backslidden man, went over to another church:
"Bethlehem tabernacle of Central Trinidad" and the pastor of that church married
the believer to that backslidden man. Did you allow that? Can we allow the same
in our church, and did the pastor acted in a scriptural manner?
E.O.D.H. Answer: Yes, this story
is true, but I think it is misrepresented. I did not sanction that union, since
it is condemned by scriptures and it is an unequal yoke.
"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what
fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath
light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14).
I stand by Bible principles. A believer should not be united with a
backslidden hypocrite and dope addict, nor an unsaved person. No, it is not
scriptural for you to allow that in your church. The young woman that done
this deed was dismissed from the House of God and is trying to be reconciled.
Certain terms and conditions are required, of which she is aware, for her
re-entry into Bethel. The pastor who have done this evil deed will gladly accept
her and the backslider, but she refused to sit under his ministry, since they
follow heresies on the seven thunders and preach contrary to the Word and also
have lowered the moral standards of the message.
The "Bethlehem tabernacle" pastor acted unscripturally and contrary to the
message and holiness standards. His actions are condemned by the
scriptures. He failed to inquire from the ministry at Bethel concerning the
young lady, he did not notify the ministry of his actions, but acted like a
hireling with the hope of gaining two members to his congregation. His sin will
find him out; he must give an account for the young woman's soul. The young lady
has no confidence in him, though she is his niece and a former member of his
church, who was once seduced by his heresies, and left the church. She is at
home and does not attend services at the hireling's church, a man with an
arrogant attitude against the first martyr, Robert Lambert, whom we
honour as a servant of the Lord.
CHILD BEARING - BIRTH CONTROL
Question #561 : "Child bearing
and birth control."
E.O.D.H. Answer:
I CAN'T ENDORSE BIRTH CONTROL
Quote W.M.B.: 1177-Q-421 421. Would you endorse birth
control?No, I can't endorse it. No, sir. See? (Questions And Answers
64-0830e).
WOMEN WOULDN'T NO MORE WANT CHILDREN
Quote W.M.B.: "Speaking of the day that when women
wouldn't no more want children... Why? She's old Mother Hubbard if she has
a child. See? That's, that's the remarks of Hollywood…So he'll have some
operation performed to himself, or her, one, that'll keep them from having
children…She'll practice birth control so she can go to parties. She
can't be bothered with a baby nursing her. It'll disform her. When she's
pregnated, it disform her. She won't look like she used to. And her husband
ignorant enough to let her go that way. She won't give him a child."
(Invisible Union Of The Bride 65-1125).
GOD COMMISSIONED WOMEN TO BRING FORTH CHILDREN
Quote W.M.B.: E-26 "I met a woman that had committed
some of those cases, practicing birth control. That's the disgrace in
America… some woman look at a woman that can't go out to the card parties
and things because she's supposed to stay home and take care of her baby, why,
they think that she is deprived something. Brother, she's done the duty
that God told her to do…God commissioned women to bring forth
children." (God Perfecting His Church 54-1204).
YOU NEED TO BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF AND REPENT
Quote W.M.B.: E-57 "You won't even have children,
practice birth control and pack some little snotty-nosed dog around,
calling it something, giving it the love of a baby. Then call yourself the
Holy Ghost church! You need to be ashamed of yourself and repent!
Amen! That's the truth." (Mark of Christ 55-0312).
SHE AIN'T GOT TIME FOR A CHILD
Quote W.M.B.: 104 "Woman will…practice birth control,
'cause she wants to get out to dances and parties, and carry on like that, and
she ain't got time for a child...Practice birth control, and then go to
church and sing in the choir: wear shorts… and call herself a Christian."
(Perseverant 64-0619).
PERMISSIBLE UNDER CERTAIN CONDITIONS
Quote W.M.B.: 1111-Q-359 359. "How do you feel about
birth control? I'd rather talk personally with you on those things, 'cause
there's words and things that I have to say, that I'd rather say it if the
husband and wife...And there is a possibility of it being done in the right
way. I'd say it to--for general. There is so many days in a woman's life that
she's not fertile. You understand? All right. Now, there's sometimes a child
would kill a woman; if she had a baby it'd kill her. You want to watch that
too. See? So just be real careful about that. See? See, that's bringing life,
so what you're put here on the earth to do. If your wife is sickly, and a
child would kill her, I wouldn't do it. I don't think the Lord wants you to do
it. And you come to me personally on them things; have it on private
interview. Let me talk to you personally...See, each individual, I can tell
whether they're lying to me or not." (Question And Answers COD
64-0830m).
Question # 562: I'm a married
brother in this message. What is the right way for birth control & family
planning?"
E.O.D.H. Answer:
"Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue
in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety." (II Timothy
2:15).
Married people are compelled by scriptures, if the woman is to be saved, to
have their children, multiply and replenish the earth, or they are in violation
of the word. They cannot get married and just continue to live in pleasure and
use birth control and call it family planning, it will put the woman's soul at
risk and the man will be punished for such sins. Brother Branham counselled the
people on private interviews concerning birth control; he said that he can tell
when they are lying. This shows that Brother Branham had certain guidelines by
which he gave advice to the people when they could use birth control or should
refrain from doing so. Over the past decades in dealing with many on this
subject, I have drawn up certain guidelines, which many have employed, to allow
certain ones to use birth controls in different forms for a certain period of
time. Generally, these guidelines have to do with a doctor's recommendation and
sicknesses. If the doctor says that a next baby will endanger the baby's life or
if the birth will be endangered, deformed etc, then we allow it.
If the woman is too sick or weak to bring forth another baby soon after a
birth, a space of time is given. The parties must keep in contact with their
pastor.
And a last reason is if the woman is past 35 years of age and has many
children. We think of feeding and growing those children, not only bearing them.
If a woman is past 35 or nearing 40 and have several children, then we have to
be precautious in letting her have more.
My precious brother, a lot of this is dependant upon what a pastor may
recommend for his sheep. Some pastors lack this knowledge. These are just our
guidelines that we use in our churches. Other pastors may do differently and we
do not contend, so this is not meant to be standard for every church. People
should consult their pastor.
Question # 563: "Here in India,
there is a population explosion, believers use the rhythm method, but it fails.
Ministers say that the Prophet advocated only such practice. Is this right?
If a couple here by mistake gets a child, unbelievers immediately go for
abortion, due to economic conditions. Men and women also take permanent
operations. They have a maximum of two children. A brother wants to go for a
permanent operation. I forbid him from doing it or to use any other method of
birth controls. Kindly give me your comments on this subject?"
E.O.D.H. Answer: My precious
pastor brother, it is true that the prophet said that he would not endorse birth
control. The scriptures said that she shall be saved in childbearing (1Timothy
2). On questions and answers 1964, on birth control, the prophet said to see him
on private interview, so he can tell when the people are lying or speaking the
truth concerning their illness etc. It is a very serious affair concerning birth
control. However, much discretion must be used where there is a population
explosion, and childbearing is regulated by the Government. In certain
Countries, people are only allowed one child. Others can only afford to maintain
one, financially. Other countries are rich and less populated; it does not
matter how many they have, except under certain health conditions. I take into
consideration these factors in answering this question. The answer that I give
here may not apply to certain people in other Countries.
a) A brother wants to go for a permanent operation. You advised him not to
do so. This is practiced around the world and is not uncommon, though the
greater part are females that take such operations. You may be right in place
with your advice, because of prevailing conditions in India, and in other cases,
a minister may allow such. I am not in place to condemn him.
b) You advised him not to use any other method of birth control. This was
based upon the misconception that the prophet allowed only the rhythm method of
birth control. While the prophet suggested that in so many words, this is
not true that he isolated that form of birth control. The rhythm method is
not very guaranteed. He recommended other methods of birth control on
private interviews, if the woman's life was at risk or even her health
condition. When the prophet's wife was at risk to have another baby; the only
reason that the prophet refused birth control, was that he had a promise of God
for Joseph his son to be born.
As stated above, over the past decades, I have drawn up certain guidelines,
which many have employed. They are just our guidelines that we use in our
churches. Other pastors may do differently and we do not contend, so this is not
meant to be standard for every church. People should consult their
pastor.
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